Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day, and I love it. I always have. I’ve enjoyed it ever since I made my first poster-board Valentine card holder in grade school. I loved being courted by Brian and showered with Valentines in college. And, as a mom, I loved helping Dan and Bob write their names on preschool super-hero Valentines.
Is it a fake holiday? Am I a romantic? Probably “yes” to both. But, I’ve purchased cards and gifts, and I’ll enjoy distributing them. And, I’ll save the ones I receive.
However, the best Valentine I can give to the people I love is to look inward and have a “spiritual EKG”. I need to take a moment and determine if my day to day demonstration of love aligns with God’s definition of love.
In 1 Corinthians 13, God tells us what love should look like:
Patient: Love bears with other’s shortcomings, weaknesses, and failures. Love waits for the right moment, it stays calm and perseveres.
Kind: Love is friendly, careful, and meets other’s needs without having to be asked. Love bends over backward to be nice, it is courteous.
Love is not…
Self-seeking: selfishly pursuing what is gratifying to me, or putting my personal desires, focus and needs above others.
Easily angered: becoming intensely displeasured or exasperated without much difficulty; it doesn’t have a short fuse and lean toward a lit match.
Proud: haughty or arrogant, with an exaggerated self-esteem or feeling of superiority.
Love does not…
Envy: discontent with what I have, resenting what another has, wanting what I don’t have.
Boast: focus on my achievements or possessions, lift myself up even at the expense of putting someone else down.
Dishonor others: bring shame or disgrace upon others through disrespect, slander, or maligning their reputation.
Delight in evil: enjoy my own wickedness or find great pleasure when others fall victim to wickedness.
Keep a record of wrongs: maintain a list of unjust treatment, collected and preserved, so as not to be forgotten, refuse to forgive, and continue to recall mistakes, errors, hurts, inequalities and injustices.
Rejoices with the truth: Love fills the heart with joy, and is ready to celebrate facts, reality, sincerity, fidelity, integrity and honesty. Love celebrates what is right.
Protects: Love guards or keeps from harm. Love never deliberately hurts another but shields them from hurt.
Trusts: Love believes, has faith and confidence in others. Love gives the benefit of the doubt.
Hopes: Love is not wishful thinking, but confidence. Loves look forward with confidence to the fulfillment of God’s Word.
Perseveres: Love persists, it never gives up, ever.
Love never fails: no way, not at all, not ever, on no occasion will love prove deficient or inadequate. Love will always succeed.
God tells us in 1 John 4:16 that He is love. Because God is love, He can define love, and He can command that we love one another in the way that He defines it. Sometimes I love well. Other times, I don’t. God always does.
Is your heart prepared for Valentine’s Day? Are you? Are those you love? Will you be showering those you love with true Godly love this Valentine’s Day?
11 thoughts on “Love Is…”
Thanks for the love definitions, Marcia!
You’re welcome, Sandra. Happy Valentine’s Day ❤
Love is….. Giving me cancer to show how much He loves me.
To God be the glory, Amber! Amen! Happy Valentine’s Day ❤
Nice blog Marcia. You are loved. B
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Thanks, Bri. So are you. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Love you Marcia! Wonderful message today. Thank you.
Thank you, Sandy! I love you, too. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Last Saturday as I was driving home from my homebound communion ministry I do for my church, I felt so rich. We are truly God’s chosen people. We are rich in every way known on this earth. As we grow our life, we can always be a Valentine
Amen, Bev! We are children of the King!Happy Valentine’s Day
Good one Marcie!!! There is different types of love but the greatest love is God’s love!!! People use the word love so carelessly I think they forget the true meaning sometimes!! Happy Valentines Day to you and Brian!!!! ♥