Challenge: Hug Daddy Tight!

Transitions are not easy and my son and his family, are in the midst of transition. My son’s job has separated his family for months; the weekends are too short and the weeks are too long.

My daughter-in-law has done a marvelous job of single-parenting, but the boys also need their dad. They need a hug from Daddy in the morning, and they need to know Daddy will be home to talk with them each night before they fall asleep.

When Daddy is away life is just not as it should be: there are more tears, more melt-downs, more boundaries pushed, and more wake-ups in the night, and more things become fearful.

To ward off some of the nighttime issues, my daughter-in-law took my son’s pillow, put one of his T-shirts on it, and made a “Daddy Pillow” for the boys to hug.

daddy pillow2The “Daddy Pillow” makes it seem like Daddy isn’t so far away.

I know what the boys are feeling! When my Father seems far away, my life is not what it should be: I have more tears, more melt-downs, more boundary pushing, more (and longer) wake-ups in the night, and more things become fearful.

But God is never far away…

“For what great nation has a god as near to them as the Lord our God is near to us whenever we call on him?” – Deuteronomy 4:7 NLT

In my mind I know that God is always close to me — that He is even waiting for me to come and snuggle up with Him. But sometimes I feel like God is away on a business trip. I know the antidote to that feeling…

“Come close to God, and God will come close to you.” – James 4:8 – NLT

Sometimes when I feel far from God, the best thing I can do is go for a long walk.

blog 6.24.14It’s funny how God always seems to be waiting for me on a walking trail. Talking with God while on a walk is like a text or an e-mail at best: It is comforting, and I hear from Him, but it really isn’t a hug from God.

Hugs come when I spend quiet time with Him in His Word, and He has the opportunity to speak to me and encourage me. My Bible is probably my “Daddy Pillow”.

Bible photo for blog (2)Have the boundaries of your life been pushed this summer? Are there melt-downs, fears and tears? How long has it been since you had a long, tight hug from God?

My challenge to you is this: Grab your Bible each morning and read what God has to say to you. Enjoy the hug! Then, at the end of the day, thank Him for all the ways He walked with you, and carried you through that day.

I know God will meet with me (and you!) anywhere, but in order to start the day with the power we need to get through the day, we must read His Word.

“He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young.” Isaiah 40:11– NIV

Your Father is close, His arms are open wide. Will you sit with Him a while this morning before summertime distractions take over?

SpurEachOtherOn … and let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds…
Hebrews 10:22-25(NIV)

8 thoughts on “Challenge: Hug Daddy Tight!

  1. Bev Brewer

    We get one mother and one father. When they leave this earth to be with the almighty begins our new stage of a very final love. I sure wish I had had one of those pillows for each parent

    God’s blessing Marcia

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    My heart goes out to Nikki and the boys!!! I love the “pillow” idea!! I remember vividly what it was like when my husband had to go over the road and was only home on weekends!!! I love the song “I’m Already There” ..take a look around….I’m the sunshine in your hair….I’m the shadow on the ground….I’m the whisper in the wind…..I’m your imaginary friend. I also feel God is the sunshine, the shadow walking with ), the whisper (still voice I hear) but my REAL friend!!! A very good read and my prayers to all the family!!!!


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